Dear
President Obama
Today is
the last day of your presidency, and I’ll be sad to see you go.
It’s been
an amazing, challenging, troubled yet wonderful eight years. You entered office
with America so embroiled in war and economic devastation, it almost felt like
a set up for failure. You were so full of hope and promise, but how could you
possibly measure up to the expectations, and to the need, particularly with
such a large target on your back? So much of the world was rooting for you, yet
so many Americans were hungry and howling for your failure. How could that be? And
how would it play out?
Well, it’s
been both rewarding and punishing. For the entire nation, the world – probably
for you more than most. That you could even be elected in America, with so much
in our legacy of hate yet to be overcome, was astonishing. That you survived
that first term, withstood so many attacks and stresses, so many setbacks and
disappointments, to win a second term on the upward lift of a second, more
strained and wary swell of hope, that too was remarkable.
And now, we’ve
come to perhaps the strangest place of all. As your custodianship of the most
powerful office in the world comes to an end, you are made to turn the
presidency over to a man who is in almost all ways your opposite. Your
popularity is higher than at almost any time since your inauguration, and your
successor comes into office with the lowest approval ratings of any president
since this measure was taken. And yet, hordes of Americans clamor about making
America great again, as though you have not been steadily steering her in that
direction.
It’s a
crazy time. Is America is better shape than when you took office? In so many
ways, that is clearly the case. Certainly, there are more people working, more
people with health care, and more who are financially secure than back then. But
there are also more signs of the hate and the spiritual sickness that has been
as much a part of America as our yearning toward democracy and equality. As
much as your presidency represented hope and coming together – maybe because of
it – there is more of the politics of hate and fear and division than I’ve
witnessed in my lifetime. Not since the late sixties have the forces of love
and hate been so at war that it seems possible that the nation could come apart.
It’s frightening. It’s depressing.
I’ve been
recalling and listening to some of your speeches over the last little while. It’s
remarkable and eye-opening to see how consistent your message has been. You’ve
always talked about hope. You’ve always talked about the work that ordinary
citizens must do. You’ve always preached the need for us to seek out our ‘others’
and share with them, listen to them. Maybe that’s what all this madness and
confusion is. Maybe it’s the noise of people meeting and confronting their ‘others’,
who don’t have much experience of that. The noise of it is deafening and
confusing. Maybe it’s that we all want to speak before we are prepared to
listen. And maybe we’ll finally shout ourselves out and a calmer phase will
come. Maybe these are the wild, incautious teenage years of America, and we
only have to survive them to begin to discover the maturity that our better
natures promise. As you’ve always said,
it won’t be determined by hoping or despairing. It will take a lot of us doing.
I’ve gotten
off track here. Because I wanted to tell you what I appreciate. There’s lots I
could say on that, but I’ll keep it at one thing. Nothing to do with what you’ve
accomplished, or haven’t, despite trying. I want to thank you for your calm,
dignified being, for your determination and your patience, your tears, your
anger, but also for being so slow to anger. In many ways, you’ve been like this
nation’s father, when it’s desperately needed one. And, probably like with all
fathers, it may seem that your words and example have gone unheeded, but they
have not. To this citizen and voter, your presidency has been, above all else,
about character.
You’ve been
a good man, Mr. President. You’ve shown yourself to be a human being, fallible,
questioning, committed and loyal, giving, sacrificing and humble. You have
served your country and the world well. You deserve a little break from all
this. But it’s pretty clear you aren’t going away. Which is a blessing to all
of us.
I’m from
that generation in which every young black man who showed promise was told, “You
could be the first Black President!” There were times I heard it when I halfway
thought it could be true. But you know, I’m really, really glad it was you,
President Obama. All the best to you as you step beyond tomorrow. I send you my
thanks, my respect, my love!
Kirby Obsidian
A beautiful goodbye, Kirby. I liked and respected what I saw of President Obama too.
ReplyDeleteWell spoken, Kirby. How thoughtful of you to reflect on the quality of President Obama's strength of character. Indeed a steadying and reassuring force throughout his tenure.
ReplyDeleteMay I add a prayer for the unity of our country? Not necessarily in our opinions or beliefs, but in the conduct of our affairs in a manner that befits our stewardship of our republic and our democratic system of government. That such "unity" be embodied in the "just" laws rooted in the best wisdom of our culture. And not in the base desires for power and self interest that for centuries have handicapped many of the more "traditional" forms of government around the world.
That's a beautiful prayer, James. Thanks for your thoughts and comment!
Deletebeautiful Kirby , we agree with every word , thank You ............Maya&Kuba
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